Sarah and Scott have cultivated a remarkable bond over the past 28 years, characterized by their commitment to each other and an active sexual life. They’ve had sex almost every day for more than 15 years, a record of their lasting affection in which the couple has written and illustrated erotic fiction. Their relationship provides a fascinating glimpse into how love, adoration and open communication about shared mutual interests can improve physical intimacy.
Sarah and Scott’s journey has roots that go back to their childhood. A few weeks after Sarah turned 17, she had Scott take her virginity beneath the crackling glow of his hearth. That historic moment in time helped to ignite an incredible and enduring love affair that has continued to blossom in the years since. As Sarah navigated her twenties, she experienced a profound shift in her sexual consciousness. It was only during this time, with Scott, that she could finally have her first orgasm.
In the new years since transitioning, Sarah’s sex drive has become significantly higher than it was in her adolescence. She tells us that she initiates sex 3 out of 4 times. This boils down to her focus on maintaining the spark in the relationship as well. The couple’s decision to be child-free increases their sexual frequency. With less pulling them in different directions, they can spend more time—less hurried and more meaningful—together.
Their escapades together are not restricted to the four walls of home. Sarah and Scott have enjoyed intimate moments in exotic locations, including a stunning balcony in Greece during sunset and under the stars on a beach in Mexico at midnight. These experiences shine a light on their mutual love for adventure and romance, which has truly added depth to their union.
Beyond their usual intimacy, Sarah expresses a willingness to explore and try things out. She’s mentioned wanting to try a threesome, which shows her openness to broadening their sexual experience. Along the way, Scott gets the sex-on-a-boat fantasy that most people dream of. Sarah is looking to make that dream come true on their next trip to Hawaii.
Even with their deep connection, Sarah recognizes that her emotional state can heavily impact her sexual desire. Even on her depressed days, it can take more mental and physical energy for her to be intimate. This honest admission speaks to the role that emotional wellbeing plays in maintaining a healthy sexual partnership.
By choosing to not have children, the couple can shift their focus away from raising kids and back toward strengthening their marriage. This decision has allowed the if not the quality, at least the quantity of their sexual relationships to blossom over the years. Their enduring collaboration illustrates the genius of creativity and devotion. Above all, it demonstrates how they ensure that their sometimes-chaotic schedules don’t dry up their vigorous sex lives.