In a moment of serendipity, the author reflects on a life-changing encounter that renewed their appreciation for their husband. It all began at a Christmas party in 2007, where, despite initial hesitations, they met their future husband after not seeing each other for 18 months. Fast forward 17 years, and the couple recently celebrated their 14th wedding anniversary, cherishing their journey together. This past New Year's Eve, at a gathering filled with couples and children, the author engaged in a conversation with three single women that prompted a newfound gratitude for their relationship.
The author recalls a time of being single before fate intervened at the Christmas party in 2007. Both the author and their now-husband almost skipped the event but decided at the last minute to attend. It was at this party that their paths crossed again after an 18-month hiatus, setting the stage for a partnership that has flourished over the years. As they celebrate 17 years together, including 14 years of marriage, the couple reflects on their shared life and the family they've built.
Their relationship has been marked by mutual respect and understanding. The couple shares a child and actively participates in childcare responsibilities, demonstrating a balanced partnership. They've also creatively arranged babysitting swaps with friends to ensure regular date nights, a cornerstone of their relationship. Interestingly, the author's husband values these moments but refrains from labeling them as "date nights," focusing instead on genuine quality time together.
On New Year's Eve, the couple attended a lively party at the home of another couple, whose child is in their son's class. The event was designed to be inclusive, encouraging families to bring their children along. Amidst the festivities, the author found themselves in a conversation with three women who were single not by choice. This encounter left a lasting impression on the author, prompting introspection about their own marriage.
Through this dialogue, the author realized how easily one can overlook the blessings of companionship when engrossed in daily routines. The candid exchange with the single women served as a poignant reminder of the importance of nurturing relationships. In response, the author made New Year's resolutions aimed at strengthening the bond with their husband. By committing to spend more quality time together, such as turning off the TV and putting down their phone, they seek to deepen their connection.