Pamela Stephenson Connolly, a prominent psychologist and relationship expert Pamela recently shared a client’s concerns about sexual satisfaction. The client said she preferred penises that were larger. During the workshop, the client revealed a fun fact. As for the one that got away, they disclosed their ex’s “horse cock,” which was a staggering 12 inches (30 cm) flaccid. This unexpected news has left many in a panic over their ability to satisfy the demands of their new, primary partner.
During one recent issue, the client reported feeling inadequate and insecure after hearing that their girlfriend had a thing for larger dongs. Such predilections can continue to generate strain in close relationships, overshadowing the adequacy of the self and the possibility of satisfaction. Connolly emphasized that while preferences can vary widely among individuals, they should not dictate the success or failure of a relationship.
In discussing the client’s past relationship, it became clear that the size of the ex-partner’s penis played a significant role in their sexual compatibility. Faced with having to constantly compare their new anatomy to that of their former partner, the client’s feelings of inadequacy became even more acute. Connolly noted that this back and forth is an all too familiar but ultimately futile comparison to make, since intimacy is about so much more than physical appearance.
Connell recommended that partners communicate directly about their relaxed and playful sexual desires. Honest and open communication is key to overcoming feelings of insecurity and developing a strong emotional bond. In her practical talk, she cautioned that relationships are built on mutual respect, candor, and trust. Trust, understanding, mutual respect are a thousand million times more important than just sex appeal.
The expert noted that bigger doesn’t equal better. At least when it comes to sexual pleasure. For others, emotional intimacy, creativity, and communication are just some of the ways couples can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences. By prioritizing these elements, even the most nontraditional of couples can deepen their connection and experience increased happiness for each partner.