Carl Dean, the husband of legendary country music icon Dolly Parton, passed away on Monday at the age of 82 in Nashville, Tennessee. Known for his quiet demeanor and aversion to the limelight, Dean was a significant influence in Parton's life and career. Despite his wife's global fame, Dean remained a private businessman who owned an asphalt-paving business in Nashville.
Married for over 60 years, Dean and Parton shared a unique bond that began when they met outside the Wishy Washy laundromat the day Parton moved to Nashville at 18. Their long-lasting relationship became a subject of admiration, with Parton often describing Dean as the force behind her creative endeavors. He was notably the inspiration for her iconic hit "Jolene," a song about a flirty bank teller who seemed to take an interest in him.
"She got this terrible crush on my husband," – Dolly Parton
"And he just loved going to the bank because she paid him so much attention. It was kinda like a running joke between us – when I was saying: ‘Hell, you’re spending a lot of time at the bank. I don’t believe we’ve got that kind of money.’ So it’s really an innocent song all around, but sounds like a dreadful one.” – Dolly Parton
In addition to "Jolene," Parton wrote "My Blue Tears" for Dean as a testament to their enduring relationship. Despite public speculation about his existence, Parton often dispelled rumors with humor and affection.
"A lot of people say there’s no Carl Dean, that he’s just somebody I made up to keep other people off me." – Dolly Parton
Throughout his life, Carl Dean preferred to stay out of the spotlight, allowing Parton to take center stage while he supported her from behind the scenes. He was described by Parton as a "rock and roller," and she credited him as the driving force behind her 2023 album "Rockstar."
"I thought: ‘Well, I better put one of Carl’s favorites of mine in here.’" – Dolly Parton
Dean's quiet strength and unwavering support endeared him not only to Parton but also to those who knew him well. He leaves behind two siblings, Sandra and Donnie. A private ceremony attended by immediate family members marked his final farewell.
"Carl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words can’t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy." – Dolly Parton